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THROUGH A RAPIST'S EYES (NO JOKE)The headlines in much of the news media currently are centred around the abductions and murders that have been going on.
A group of rapists and date rapists in prison were interviewed on what they look for in a potential victim and here are some interesting facts:
The first thing men look for in a potential victim is they are most likely
to go after a woman with a ponytail, bun, braid or other hairstyle that can easily be grabbed. They are also likely to go after a woman with long hair.Women with short hair are not common targets.
The second thing men look for is clothing. They will look for women whose clothing is easy to remove quickly. Many of them carry scissors to cut clothing.
They also look for women either on their cell phone, searching through their purse or doing other activities while walking because they are off guard and can be easily overpowered.
The time of day men are most likely to attack and rape a woman is in the early morning, between 5am and 8:30 a.m.
The number one place women are abducted from/attacked at is shopping centre/supermarket car parks. Number two is office parking/ garages.
The thing about these men is that they are looking to grab a woman and quickly move her to a second location where they don't have to worry about getting caught.
Only 2% said they carried weapons because rape carries a 3-5 year sentence but rape with a weapon is 15-20 years.
If you put up any kind of a fight at all, they get discouraged because it only takes a minute or two for them to realize that going after you isn't worth it because it will be time-consuming.
These men said they would not pick on women who have, in their hands, umbrellas or other similar objects that can be used from a distance.
Keys are not a deterrent because you have to get really close to the attacker to use them as a weapon.so, the idea is to convince these guys you're not worth it. Several defence mechanisms the things he taught us are If someone is following behind you on a street or in a garage or with you in an elevator or stairwell, look them in the face and ask them a question, like "what time is it?", or make general small talk, "I can't believe it is so cold out here, we're in for a bad winter".
Now you've seen their face and could identify them in a line-up, you lose appeal as a target.
Most of the rapists this man talked to said they'd leave a woman alone if she yelled or showed that she would not be afraid to fight back. Again, they are looking for an EASYtarget.
If someone grabs you, you can't beat them with strength but you outsmarting them.
If you are grabbed around the waist from behind, pinch the attacker either under the arm between the elbow and armpit or in the upper inner thigh.After the initial hit, always go for the groin. You might think that you'll anger the guy and make him want to hurt you more, but the thing these rapists told our instructor is that they want a woman who will not cause a lot of trouble.
Start causing trouble, and he's out of there.When the guy puts his hands up to you, grab his first two fingers and bend them back as far as possible with as much pressure pushing down on them.
Of course, the things we always hear still apply. Always be aware of your surroundings, take someone with you if you can and if you see any odd behaviour, don't dismiss it, go with your instincts.
PLEASE READ – THEN FORWARD THIS TO ANY WOMAN YOU KNOW, IT'S SIMPLE STUFF
THAT COULD SAVE HER LIFE