Subject: When man & woman fall in love > Nice~
The Mysterious thing called "LOVE"....
| If you find yourself in love with someone who does not
| love you, be gentle with yourself. There is nothing wrong
| with you. Love just didn't choose to rest in the other
| person's heart.
| If you find someone else in love with you and you don't
| love him/her, feel honored that love came and called at your
| door, but gently refuse the gift you cannot return. Do not
| take advantage, do not cause pain.
| How you deal with love is how you deal with you, and all
| our hearts feel the same pains and joys, even if our lives
| and ways are different.
| If you fall in love with another, and he/she falls in
| love with you, and then love chooses to leave, do not try to
| reclaim it or to assess blame, let it go. There is a reason
| and there is a meaning. You will know in time.
| Remember that you don't choose love. Love chooses you. All
| you can really do is accept it for all its mystery when it
| comes into your life. Feel the way it fills you to
| overflowing, then reach out and give it away.
| Give it back to the person who brought it alive in you.
| Give it to others who deem it poor in spirit. Give it to the
| world around you in anyway you can. There is where many
| lovers go wrong. Having been so long without love, they
| understand love only as a need. They see their hearts as
| empty places that will be filled by love, and they begin to
| look at love as something that flows to them rather than
| from them.
| The first blush of new love is filled to overflowing,
| but as their love cools, they revert to seeing their love as
| need. They cease to be someone who generates love and
| instead become someone who seeks love.
| They forget that the secret of love is that it is a
| gift, and that it can be made to grow only by giving it away.
| Remember this, and keep it to your heart. Love has its own
| time, its own seasons, and its own reason for coming and
| going. You cannot bribe it or coerce it, or reason it into
| staying. You can only embrace it when it arrives and give
| it away when it comes to you. But if it chooses to leave
| from your heart or from the heart of your lover, there is
| nothing you can do and there is nothing you should do.
| Love always has been and always will be a mystery.
| Be glad that it came to live for a moment in your life.
Treasure ur loved ones...Don't ever let love just slip away on its own..
Love won't wait for you...
"If you want to be happy, be."